Foreword ix
Part 1 Reduce, let go, leave behind.
The Zen way of keeping anxiety and worry at bay
1. Don't delude yourself. 3
2. Focus on "now." 7
3. Don't burden yourself or drag yourself down. 11
4. Pare down your belongings. 15
5. Just be, as you are. 19
6. Take off your colored glasses. 23
7. Be gracious. 27
8. Recognize limitations. 31
Part 2 Concentrate only on things you can achieve here and now.
By doing so, you'll stop thinking about unnecessary things.
9. Reconsider the obvious. 37
10. Don't rush, don't panic. 41
11. Respond positively. 45
12. Cherish the morning. 51
13. Live by your own standards. 57
14. Don't seek out the unnecessary. 61
15. Shine wherever you find yourself. 65
16. Don't go against your feelings. 69
17. Make your evenings calm. 73
Part 3 Step away from competition and things will fall into place.
"Everyone is their own person, and I am who I am."
18. Don't fixate on victory or defeat. 79
19. Keep at it, slow and steady. 83
20. Experience gratitude. 87
21. Use the right words. 91
22. Let young people take charge. 95
23. Accept your circumstances, whatever they may be. 99
24. Do today's things today. 103
25. Don't simply run away. 107
26. Be more tolerant. 111
27. Go with the flow. 115
28. Don't talk just for the sake of talking. 119
29. Adjust your breathing. 123
30. Change the "air" in your home. 127
Part 4 Surprising tips for improving relationships
How to form good connections and let go of had ones
31. Cherish your connections. 133
32. Make good connections. 137
33. Yield to others. 141
34. Don't wield "logic." 145
35. Spend ten minutes a day in nature. 149
36. Make people want to see you again. 153
37. Admit errors right away. 157
38. Don't hesitate to ask for help. 161
39. Be a good listener. 165
40. Don't base decisions on profits and losses. 169
Part 5 Change how you worry about things and your life will change for the better.
On money, aging, death, and more
41. Money 175
42. Getting Older 179
43. Old Age 183
44. Love 187
45. Marriage 191
46. Children 195
47. Death 199
48. One's End 203
Index of Zengo, or Zen Sayings 207