On the spiritual path we speak of enlightenment. But how do we reconcile the idea of enlightenment with what we see when we look in the mirror -- when insecurities, doubts, and self-centered tendencies arise in our minds? Dzigar Kongtrul suggests that we need not feel "doomed" when these experiences surface. In fact, such experiences are not a problem if we are able to simply let them arise without judging them or investing them with so much meaning. This approach to experience is what Kongtrul calls self-reflection.
Self-reflection is a practice, a path, and an attitude. It is the spirit of taking an interest in that which we usually try to push away. Self-reflection is the common thread that runs through all traditions of Buddhist practice. It breathes life into our practice, protecting it from becoming just another enterprise. When we practice self-reflection we take liberation into our own hands and accept the challenge and personal empowerment in Kongtrul's title: It's Up to You.
Trained by the celebrated Tibetan meditation master Dilgo Khyentse (author of The Heart Treasure of the Enlightened Ones and The Wish-Fulfilling Jewel), Dzigar Kongtrul is steeped in the Tibetan Buddhist tradition. Having lived in Colorado and taught Western students for fifteen years, he is deeply valued for his skill at presenting ancient teachings in a way that is accessible and relevant for the contemporary mind.
It's Up to You, Dzigar Kongtrul, Foreword by Pema Chodron, Preface by Matthieu Ricard, Shambhala Publications, Paperback, 2006, 130 pp, $18.95
Dzigar Kongtrul was born in Northern India, the son of the highly respected Buddhist lama Neten Choling Rinpoche. After being recognized as a reincarnation of the nonsectarian master Jamgon Kongtrul Lodro Thaye, he received extensive traditional training in all aspects of Tibetan Buddhist doctrine.
In 1990, he began a five-year tenure as a professor of Buddhist philosophy at Naropa University in Boulder, Colorado. He also founded Mangala Shri Bhuti, his own teaching organization, during this period. He has established a mountain retreat center, Longchen Jigme Samten Ling, in southern Colorado. When not guiding students in long-term retreats and not in retreat himself, Rinpoche travels widely throughout the world teaching and furthering his own education.
CONTENTS: It's Up to You
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Foreword by Pema Chodron
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ix
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Preface by Matthieu Ricard
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xi
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Author's Preface
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xiii
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Acknowledgments
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xv
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Supplication
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xvi
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Introduction
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xxi
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PART ONE: THE PRACTICE OF SELF-REFLECTION
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1.
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Looking in the Mirror
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3
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2.
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The Theater of Reflections
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11
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3.
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The Legacy of Cavemen and Sages
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17
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4.
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Our Natural Inheritance
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21
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5.
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The Teacher as Mirror
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29
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PART TWO: FEARLESS SELF-REFLECTION
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6.
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Training in Courage
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35
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7.
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Finding a Refuge
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39
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8.
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Dancing with Habits and Fears
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43
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9.
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The Momentum of Delusion
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49
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10.
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Slowing Down
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53
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11.
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Not Hooking the World
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61
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12.
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Being Present
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69
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13.
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Going Beyond Self-Importance
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77
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14.
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Distinguishing Friend from Foe
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83
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15.
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Stretching the Heart Further
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85
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16.
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Having a Sense of Humor
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91
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PART THREE: FINDING OUR PLACE IN THE WORLD
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17.
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Action and Intention
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101
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18.
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Awake in Daytime, Sleep, and Dreams
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107
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Grace and Elegance
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113
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20.
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Creativity
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119
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21.
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Great Possibilities
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125
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Suggestions for Further Reading
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131
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Mangala Shri Bhuti Centers
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133
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