After the sudden death of a friend, Cynthia Kane realized that life is too short to waste time being misunderstood, misheard, and misrepresenting her needs and desires, and that life could be richer and more satisfying if she was able to communicate with a greater level of kindness, clarity, and awareness. Kane's book, based on Buddhisms Four Elements of Right Speech, is a simple and practical guide for learning communication skills that inevitably result in better relationships, enhanced self-esteem, and conscious living. The 5 steps for communicating like the Buddha are: Listen to yourself. Speak consciously, concisely, and clearly. Listen to others. Regard silence as a part of speech. Meditate. When followed, these steps will result in an awareness of what is being communicated to others and to oneself (truths or untruths), an understanding of how best to speak to others, more effective listening skills, and the ability to know how and when to effectively use silence. In short, this approach results in a satisfying and mindful life. How to Communicate Like a Buddhist, Cynthia Kane, Hierophant Publishing, Paperback, $14.95
Cynthia Kane is the CEO of the Kane Intentional Communication Institute, LLC, the leading institute for high achieving individuals that provides a holistic approach to effective communication. Cynthia uses her proprietary process called the Kane Intentional Communication Practice� to help her clients experience more peace so that they show up authentically in their most important relationships.
She is the bestselling author of How to Communicate like a Buddhist, Talk to Yourself like a Buddhist, and How to Meditate like a Buddhist, and was named by Yahoo as the #2 Communication Coach to watch in 2021. She and her work have been featured in national and international publications including Spirituality & Health Magazine, Self Magazine, Thrive Global, Authority Magazine, The Washington Post, Woman�s Day, BBC Travel, Refinery29, Mind Body Green and more. She has been a featured mindfulness and meditation expert on Great Day Washington, Good Morning Arizona, Good Morning Connecticut, and All About Women � WENG RADIO. Podcasts she�s been featured on: Gold with Jeanette Schneider, Inner Light Project, What Matters Most, The Lit Up Lightworker, Mindful Communication, TheFutur, Sexy Soulful Success, Office Hours.
Cynthia has a Bachelor of Arts degree from Bard College and a Master of Fine Arts degree from Sarah Lawrence College. She lives in Washington, DC, with her husband and two little kidd
Chapter | Page | | | Introduction | 1 | | | What's Your Communication Style? | 9 | | | Mindful Listening | 33 | | Step 1 | Listen to Yourself | 35 | | Step 2 | Listen to Others | 75 | | | Mindful Speech | 109 | | Step 3 | Speak Consciously, Concisely, and Clearly | 111 | | Step 4 | Use the Language of Silence | 133 | | | Mindful Silence | 141 | | Step 5 | Meditation | 143 | | | Thought Process of Communicating Like a Buddhist | 155 | | | Acknowledgments | 159 | | | Resources | 161 | | | | |
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